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Why?


Goals?

1. Stay committed to the full 21 Day Fix program by posting every three days to this blog with updates; posting to my online accountability group with prompts and my own responses; having my boyfriend correct my eating or workout with me if I'm losing willpower. I've always had something happen where I didn't complete my final week: this time, I won't let it.
2. Lose 7 lbs. Assuming that I gained two back like I think I did, my goal is to lose 7 lbs and get back to a weight that I was in both of my sophomore years (high school and college). I'm going to weigh in every Sunday to see how I'm progressing and take photos to mark the physical and inch-changes that the scale may not reflect. That way I can alter behavior as I go.
3. Stay away from Dunkin Donuts and Starbucks completely. I've been guilty of grabbing a drink and counting it as a yellow container. Which in theory isn't wrong, because both coffee and chocolate are allowed some times on the fix. But I wasn't counting them as much as I should have, and I really could use to save the money. I'm going to make sure I have a Shakeology every morning (I was having it later in the day some days) so that I don't feel the need for another drink and make sure that I have a snack prepped for my 15, when I would usually run to grab something.
Let's do this :) Day 1. 


It's been a struggle for me lately.

I've had a lot of really great things happening in my life. Don't get me wrong, kids. I'm super grateful for everything that's been going on, the people who are along for the ride, and the abundance of blessings that follow. I'm still elated from the results I've had so far from the 21 Day Fix, and aside from the humidity outside being the equivalent to the amount of water that makes up the Earth, I don't have complaints.

My struggles have been fitness related, mainly: eating well and eating clean.

I tend to participate in a psychological phenomenon called self-handicapping. (Note that the word "handicap" is terrible and it shouldn't be used for a myriad of reasons that I would love to discuss with you some time.) Self-handicapping is in its simplest form participating in behavior that will result in failure to avoid conscious failure. Say what? Basically, being afraid of failing so you set yourself up to fail.

I've been mentally battling with failure. Because of my history with bulimia, my weight has fluctuated rather consistently over the past few years. It's really always been that way. And now that I'm finally seeing real and tangible weight related results, it's almost created a fear in the back of my mind. And with that fear, an onslaught of negative thoughts. 

You can't maintain this weight loss anyway. You're just going to gain it back and be back at square one. You're not dedicated enough to stay on this positive path. You'll always be overweight, why bother? You may as well just eat all the carbs you want, you'll never have the body you want or reach the goals you have. You're not a very good coach anyway.

All of these thoughts totally suck! But I've been letting them get my down. Can I say, I hadn't bought desserts and sugary drinks in weeks until this past week and a half? I have good and back days. Some I'm awesome but then stink at night, and others its reverse. I'm trying to stay on track while motivating everyone else, and although I've stuck with workouts, let's be honest. Working out is maybe 30% of your battle - nutrition is the mountain that matters.

Yesterday, I made a conscious effort to go to the Farmer's Market outside of my work before the rest of my errands. I got fresh fruits, veggies, lettuce, and herbs that were all (insert)-icide free. I got fresh seven-grain whole wheat bread from a local farm to make sure that when I do crave that bread-y taste, I have something good to fill it with. I woke up and decided that enough was enough, and that I was going to take yesterday's purchases to make today and the rest of the week healthier days. I had my vegan blueberry wheat muffin and instead of letting it ride like I have been, I marked it on my app that I was done with my yellow containers (carbs) for the day. I spoke to my upline coach about my progress and about this struggle, and she encouraged me to write this post so I am. I want to be held accountable, and I can't do that if I don't post or if I let this struggle deter me.

I want you all to know that fitness isn't a perfect journey. I'm not just saying this to, ya know, make myself feel better (although it's part of it ;P). It's true. These feelings of negativity, self-blame, guilt... they need to go away. Having one bad week won't ruin the rest of my journey or life. I have the ability to pick myself back up and get moving again, which I am doing. I'm cleaning the rest of my house, waiting for boyfriend to bring me a banana to make my Shakeology, and then we're doing Cardio Fix together. I got this, and even though I'm struggling, I know I'll succeed because I have you all as an awesome community.

You're never defeated unless you give up. Don't forget that :) Feel free to reach out on FB @ Curves For Days: Fitness Blog or email me at curvesfordaysfitness@gmail.com. x
Disclaimer: My photos belong to me and these are my work-in-progress shots. Please do not share without permission :) And keep any negativity where it belongs - on an STI test result paper.



So I'm technically 26 days into the 21 day fix, on and off. But with my most recent challenge group of kickass ladies, I'm on day 6. I weighed in yesterday and checked on my measurements because I hadn't taken them in a long while.

This post is mainly for me. I want to use it to encourage you all to a) not be afraid of your progress photos because at least you are working on it and b) keep it up. I was so excited when I saw my drop in lbs and measurements, but when I took my photos, I wasn't as excited. I think it's just that annoying little voice in the back of my head saying "You have so long to go," which really is just my old demons talking. (For those who don't know, I've been in recovery from bulimia for the last four years.) 

And part of it is perhaps because when I was doing TurboFire, I saw such a dramatic change in my stomach area. That program is heavy cardio and upper body conditioning with the kickboxing which I adore! It will forever be my soulmate workout. But it would make sense why I saw quick results there versus this program.

All that being said, I got a ton of encouragement from one of my challengers this morning about photos. I asked her if I could vent and sent them her way and she was really supportive of me. I tend to be overly supportive of everyone else and super negative towards myself. Don't we all though? Isn't that why we say "I am my own worst enemy?"

So I decided I needed to share these because even if I am not where I want to be right now, I am on my way to getting there. My focus with 21 Day Fix has been lbs and my lat area... and it's definitely helping me accomplish that!


-8.2 lbs, -8.2 inches
(It keeps blurring the photo, my sorries.)

So take it from me. Don't feel negative about your photos. Every body and everyone that you admire or think is fit started somewhere. It takes strength and courage to reach your goals. Remember why you started and what you wanted to get out of the workouts. I still have another 2 weeks for this round and I'm doing one more before starting a new program (details on that later)! I just need to focus on that my overall goal is to improve on my muscle building which is exactly what I am doing. 👍


Shameless plug-in: I have a challenge group coming up for September 7th. It's open program. Feel free to comment, FB, or email me at curvesfordaysfitness@gmail.com for more information :)

On my sixth day of the 21 Day Fix, I decided to revisit a super simple oatmeal recipe that Autumn presents in the Extreme nutrition guide. Something that I tell people a lot and frequently have to remind myself is that we rarely need as much as we think we do. I'm talking about portions. Our eyes are bigger than our stomachs (metaphorically, kids, don't get all bio on me *thatmeansyouOscar*), so we often give ourselves too much and thus, eat too much. 

So easy for you, I kindly borrowed the recipe from Autumn's nutrition book to give it to you here. I just made it about the minutes ago and am ready to nom up the morning with this quick, simple recipe. It'll help those of you who like oatmeal - or who want to like oatmeal 'cause, you know, all the hip kids are eating it - save money and sugar on buying that nasty processed stuff at the stores. I'm not looking at the book right now, but I've done this enough to go by memory. Enjoy my fabulous commentary. 

You'll need:

- 1/4 cup of steel cut oats (I used old fashioned, same difference. It just describes the way they're rolled and cut)
- 1 cup of water
- 1 pinch of salt (Himalayan recommended)
- 1 teaspoon of all natural peanut butter (no sugar recommended, buuuuut I didn't have any so)
- 1 cup of sliced strawberries
- 2 tablespoons unsweetened almond milk (optional)

You'll need to do:

1. Place your cup of water and pinch of salt into a small pot or sauce pan. Put it on medium-high heat. Once it boils, set your heat for low. 

What does a pinch of salt mean? It's not the amount you throw over your shoulder to ward off back Ju-ju. It's just enough that if you pinched a small layer of skin. you'd leave some residue. I promise, you do not want to be heavy handed on the salt. Bad experience my first time. Yuck.

2. Add the 1/4 cup of oats. Stir frequently for 15-20 minutes or until the water is absorbed. Take off the heat and let sit for 5 minutes.

Autumn recommends frequently but if you're on the lowest heat setting, "occasionally" is an easy substitute there. I was sorting paper clips (your judgment is unnecessary) and just using my ear to listen to when I needed to stir. Also, I frequently find myself just waiting for most of the water to absorb.

3. Add a teaspoon of PB and mix it well. If the mixture turns out too thick, add the almond milk.

It really doesn't turn out too thick, so I think this is unnecessary. But if you're more of a cereal junky, maybe it's a good option.

4. Add your strawberries. Done! Eat.

Now this is Fix approved. So this serves as ONE TEASPOON, ONE YELLOW, and ONE PURPLE container. The strawberry  is enough to give you the sweetness you lack from the unsweetened PB. It's also enough to fill you up. I personally didn't want all of the strawberries in my oatmeal so I kept them in my purple container.

Bam! Simple, no artificial sugar, you're golden. Let me know how you liked it or what you changed!